No. She is reasonably responsible for tracking her fertility cycle and what she allows near her eggs.
You may think this is merr semantics and maybe it is. But sometimes semantics keep thinking gs on an even keel, you know what I mean?
Your vetbage puts a disproportionate amount of responsibility on the woman to prevent unwanted pregnancies.
When women bear ALL the responsibility, men become reckless and irresponsible. We see that now.
Broad strokes, Women don't have to be begged to use birth control. Men do. Women are having to teach their Male lovers about reproduction yet you both attended the same health class in high school. You both took the same 9th grade biology. Men habitually have no idea what it takes to raise a child or how to care for an infant. Men habitually whine about having to use a condom. Men beg for sex but balk at discussing reproductive logistics, realities, and other consequences. They act like their pride is wounded and you've accused them of murder if you ask for a sexual health checkup after bragging how full their bean jar is and how much they love bareback.
These irresponsible and reckless behaviors are doing a lot of damage. To others, obviously, but also to themselves.
The only way to check that and get men thinking correctly again is that every individual is responsible for their own reproductive potential. If you don't mind that potential, you accept the consequences. Men are 100% responsible for their sperm. Women are 100% responsible for their eggs.
Men's opportunity to address unwanted pregnancies is before it happens. They can make their wishes known after the fact, but that pregnancy depends upon her body so once it's there, she's got the final say and he blew his chance.
He doesn't have to stick around and be a father, but he IS financially responsible for that child.
This is something else where men want to have their cake and eat it too. They don't want to be a father, but they make zero move to legally revoke their parental rights. They will actually fight against such legal action.
