No offense, but this seems like a bunch of woo woo nonsense to me. All this business about masculine and feminine energies is BS. Both men and women house capacity for traits falsely attributed as gender specific. Both need to access and express all these traits at different times to keep relationships viable and healthy.

I would like to think a guy I liked would be equally appreciative of me looking for his favorite magazine in that store or finding another way of providing it. Being patient and present as you say. Men need to know they matter more than a paycheck too.

I would like to think that if a guy a woman liked was having trouble or difficulty with something that she wouldn’t let her reproductive organs or “feminine energy” prevent her from pitching in. Women need to be actively present and engage their partner’s attention too. Sometimes that means looking for a car magazine you know nothing about.

Your broader point about being present and attentive is valid, but it’s universal. You don’t need to create ridiculous gender theory and stereotypes to achieve it. Just be what you already are… human, and choose to share that humanity with someone you admire.