No, of course not. I did include enthusiastic physical response as a yes. But yes also begins with conversations about protection, likes and dislikes, and other logistic concerns before the actual act of sex takes place.

To be clear, there are also multiple ways to physically say no without saying the word "no".

I’m now concerned you’re not doing sex right. “Only on a good day"? Why are you having sex with men who give you bad days? Maybe if you didn’t engage until you were enthusiastic for it you’d find yourself screaming, “oh yes, yes, YES!” at the end. Just saying.