No. Feminists want equitable partnerships. We recognize that for some that will mean more traditional arrangements or a more defined division of different aspects of labor. So long as it's consensual and not being promoted and insisted upon as being the ONLY way to be for everyone, which causes all sorts of unnecessary drama, I can't imagine any feminist who would be offended by a happy, functioning, thriving couple.
We just don't want to he denied the same opportunity to thrive because someone else doesn't like the way we do it, that we need different than how they think things should be.