No, especially not if it violates their needs. It's not that I don't have needs, it's not that you don't look to your partner to help you fill those needs.

But.

My needs should never become an onerous burden to them. My needs can never lessen, cheaper, or use them. My needs can never supercede or cause a neglect of their needs.

Once any of those things happen, you're no longer in true partnership. You're one person using the other or one person dominating the other. One person benefitting at thr expense of the other.

Partnerships work in tandem. Side by side.

This is going to be one of those things where every dude out there is going to pop off about women just don't understand, blah blah blah.

Let me just say, that out of my male sexual partners (because I'm cis het), I've had a higher libido than 75% of them. So I actually do understand.

I still never pressured them or tried to guilt them, or played this whiny game when they said no.

No one was put on this Earth to service another, sexually or otherwise. Full stop.