Nice try.
Patriarchy's rules are that everyone pursue romantic love and marriage as proof of their value as a human being and as social status as an adult. Not only that, marry young is pushed.
That's got nothing to do with whether or not people actually want it. Many do. That's fine.
But not everyone truly does. Few do when they're young.
But yes. I would love to encourage as many men and women as possible to re-examine why they're pursuing romantic love and the ways they're doing it. There's a fair number who would find that self reflection quite liberating. For others it would solidify and hone their desire and how they're going about it.
I see you, my guy. You're more interested in marriages than you are what's best for the people in them. I hope your clients see you for what you are rather than waste years of their lives following agenda advice.
Also, nice try blaming singles for the poor state of heterosexual relationships. Even if every single person like me left the dating field, you'd still have a failure rate of over 50%.
You should try blaming single mothers. You haven't tried that one yet. And everyone falls for that one. It's a classic for a reason.