News flash. You could.move on too, if you don't like what she writes.

Maybe this essay isn't for you. That's cool.

But there's a hypocrisy here in that you're blaming her for "not taking responsibility for her dating choices" while refusing to take responsibility of where youre putting your eyeballs for reading material. Clearly, you've been a Yael reader for a good long while.

If Yael is a trainwreck, that makes you a rubbernecker.