No entirely, you support each other as part of a tribe, or extended family.

I agree with most.of your article, however.

Not everything is your fault. If you get plowed into by a drunk driver, it’s not your fault. If you get leukemia, it’s not your fault. If your spouse choose to cheat on you rather than work on your marriage problems when you ARE willing to make the effort, that’s not your fault.

I appreciate the overall sentiment of the piece, this one statement is too generalized though. Needs an edit as it detracts from the overall tenor of the piece.