Nah, that's fair. The general public didn't always have the vernacular to describe bipolar disorder, or manic, or understand all the manifeststions of depression.

And we did the same thing. We would bucket refer to depressed men as lazy or shiftless because we didn't understand.

We do now, so we do better.

If we don't give men that same grace to learn and grow, we're treating them as badly as they treat us.

I'm all for calling out bullshit and you and I both know many men will weaponize all forms of incompetence or ignorance to stay in their own La-La land inside theie heads.

This one, though? This one is fair. The language and general understanding of psychology has grown significantly over the past few decades.