Mostly because they're always up in female spaces honking their grievances and spewing their rage at any woman nearby. But they won't go to a therapist or a professional.

You're right, they should. That would be infinitely better. But they don't.

Given that dynamic, it's not illogical or unreasonable to assume they must want to be told how to behave from women. Cause that's who they keep running to.

I don't go to a dry cleaner to get my windshield repaired. If I did, I wouldn't then berate them with "why do you think I want my windshield repaired by you?" when I'm the one who came to them in the first place.