More delusional man logical fallacies to cover their own asses.
If you cheat on your spouse, staying doesn't change the fact that you have set a bomb off in your home. Your stability is blown to smithereens. You've fundamentally changed the dynamics of your entire family and there is no going back to what you had.
You might, might, with a whole lot of work be able to rebuild enough to function and continue forward.
But don't think you get to pay yourselves on the back and gloat about what great guys you are just because you didn't want to give up a fuckmaid and for whatever reason (usually money) she didn't kick your sorry 🦨 cheating ass to the curb.
You thought you had to worry about better options coming along and whisking "the hot chick" out from under you but you're safe with the wife you cheated on?
Buttercup. Please. Bless your damn hearts.