Modern feminism isn't shutting down the issue; we just don't want to be burdened with the clean up from it, blamed for it, or tasked with fixing it for you.
Being a feminist or a woman doesn't automatically make one skilled or suitable to handle the sort of deep emotional issues men have. I wouldn't take my car to the dentist for repair either. I have a great dentist, one who has spent years gaining a specific skillet that he is very adept at. But he doesn't know a radiator from a carburetor so it would be foolish to look to him to fix my car.
We're actually doing you a favor by not taking on what YOU need to he tending to.
Your very next sentence you point out that men are less likely to seek mental health help.
So how are you being shut down by modern feminism when you men are the ones preventing yourselves from getting the help you need?
Contradictory statements. Cognitive dissonance.
Take responsibility for yourselves, fix your problems, and stop dumping on and blaming women for them.
We'll believe this claim when you can show us undoctored footage of armed women outside mental health facilities harassing and heckling men trying to get mental health care. Show us the restraining orders you've had to file and the bomb threats. Show us the mental health providers that have been executed for helping men in crisis.
THEN we can talk about how women are preventing men from getting the care they need.
Until then, cut the shit.