Men do need to moderate their alcohol consumption and stop getting high. Or not be in drunken groups without a sober buddy.
Most of you can’t hold your liquor worth a damn and you’re unpredictable and violent when high.
If it makes you feel better, yes that applies to the women in your example too. Still, my while life I’ve only known a handful of women who drink and party to excess like that on a consistent basis. I’ve known scores more men who do and hear them bragging about it all the time.