Men are the way they are because they like it — it makes them more attractive to other men; they don’t get picked on. And because women have tolerated it for way too long because they’ve had to.
There’s a difference between desiring a provider and protector and needing one because you’ve been disenfranchised from the economy based on gender.
I guess it escaped your notice that those days are over. Women are making different choices because for the first time in millenia, they can go after what they desire, not what they have to settle for to survive.
Macho Macho Man ain’t it. Look around.
They’re looking for companions. Men who are likeable. Men who are confident enough in themselves not to be obstructionist to a woman’s potential. Men who help at the nest. Men who show caring. These are the guys getting a family. All the others are just disposable, placeholders, sperm donors in some cases, the sort of guy you get what you can from and move on.
By male design. You men never like to hear that. But why would a woman invest in you beyond the transaction you offer her? Do you pay McDonalds $20 for a BigMac meal when they offer it to you for less than $10 just because it’s “golden”? The sad reality is the vast majority of you treat women and relationships in transactional terms. And women have been forced to “pay" far more than they’ve gotten out of it for years due to that disenfranchisement.
You reap what you sow. You’re getting the same dynamic back now and all of a sudden you don’t like it. It’s not fair. It makes you feel bad. It’s dehumanizing.
Boo hoo. It sucks. You’re preaching to the choir. Tell us something we don’t already know.
Your biological argument is disingenuous and doesn’t hold water. It’s the same bullshit you men always prop yourselves up on. But good luck with that. Though, if you’re paying attention it’s pretty obvious that men like you are gonna be the ones left behind.