Meh.

Okay, that's the wording of the narrative, but contextually, you're off a bit. When we're talking about worthiness and deserving here, contextually what is being said is that love is not a reward or a boon that can we won or earned. It doesn't work like that.

I grant you, the messaging is flawed. That's because it came about as an oppositional to what was a flawed way of thinking to begin with, a transactional mindset ( that if you do this or become, this, and this, you will get love) rather than a cultivator' s mindset.

Love and attraction don't work that way. They never have. They never will. Trying the same thing over and over and thinking about it thw same ways again and again are not going to change that. If it were possible, somebody would have succeed with that formula by now.

But the formula IS flawed.

And those who have succeeded, have followed a different path. The path of a cultivator, or a gardener. That's what works.