Medium is a small pond, not a huge ocean. She has a respectable following here, Influencer as a label is a bit much.

She's being read by mostly middle aged and older readers here, not many of the young.

You might not want to face the truth and reality that the way we (our generations) were raised left us vulnerable to exploitative men and the way you men were raised left many of you thinking you were owed and entitled to our bodies. Anything and everything you had to do to get laid was both acceptable and necessary to prove your manhood.

Rape culture is not just caused by women's bad dating choices. You're gaslighting.

It takes two people to build and maintain a healthy relationship. Two.

Instead of worrying about young women, try concerning yourself with young men and whether or not you and your cohort, as their fathers, uncles, and mentors are teaching them the skills they need to have the relationahips they want. Stop blaming women for men's bad behavior.