Maybe unlike you, he recognizes the difference in boosting men toward more healthy mental landscapes and molly coddling out of control egos running amok and morphing into trolls.

He didn't block me, so clearly he wasn't offended by my comment. He also seemed to grasp that my only disagreement was his premise that there are no "templates" for boys to express their emotions beyond anger.

And I'll say again. There are. There absolutely are millions of them. They're called mothers, sisters, aunties, gammas. Frankly, you can go down to your local zoo and see any plethora of animals expressing acts of compassion. Or your back yard. Have you paid close attention to your pets lately?

It's not that they're not there, it's that they're not valued by men because men think they're above all that. They're not taught to value those expressions of humanity and to hold in a kind of contempt anyone who does and the work of doing so; i.e. women and relationship building work.

I look forward to you proving my point, yet again.