Maybe so. But arguing against reality is not an effective pushback.

Proving that it doesn't have to be that way for them or us would be much more strategic.

Of course, that would require men embracing that "feminine" skill set they look down on and degrade in order to acquire the things that skill set provides. And they can't get there. They won't get there. How could they then be a man when performing masculinity is doing the opposite of what is labeled feminine?

Being a man is everything for them. There is nothing else.

Until that changes, they're going to continue being stuck. Best thing for us women to do is move on with our lives.