Mark Manson's paradox of choice doesn't apply here. Nice try though.

It's not like shopping for a handbag, for crying out loud. Where any handbag serves the same purpose more or less and you're just looking for the one you like the best or matches a particular outfit.

Stop dehumanizing men on supposed behalf of women. We ain't saying or doing that shit and it's gross and disgusting. Where's your pride?

Many I can't even with you men. What the fuck is wrong with you?

You're waiting for the guy you think is going to be the one to help you thrive. It doesn't matter who the guy is, what he does, what he looks like, or any of that shit.

It's about the space he probides and protects for you, whether or not you can trust him to step up and take care of your children should something unfortunate befall you, whether or not he invests in you as much as you invest in him, whether or not you're safe with him in all the ways, whether or not he has you back, and whether or not he's placing too onerous expectations upon you.

That's the shit worth waiting for.