Look at you! Using your noggin to think through and past Influencer bullshit.
Well done young man. Well done.
These are good thoughts. Very good thinkings.
I'm gonna add another one, k?
It is very common amongst women, once they become attracted to you because of your character to begin to find you physically attractive after a while when they didn't before. Or, to most especially love and defend some physical characteristic you're self conscious about or were teased about. Your wild, unruly hair, your nose, your own feet, your chicken legs, whatever.
Something else to keep in mind.