Key words there: on dating sites.

The dating sites that were designed by code geeks who spent their youth play WoW and never tslked to girls and see women as prizes rather than people? Those dating sites? That's what we're talking about?

Take a moment and think about how much those things resemble how computer games are played. Put some real thought into it for a while.

Why do so many men continue to invest their time, money, and energy on a daring method that has a very low success rate over all, has been criticized and fined for being manipulative and fraudulent, and has yield zero success for them unless you count success as making men feel like shit?

It's not like those wrbsites don't work EXACTLY as designed in the same way computer games do.