Just don't marry them. Tank the birth rate. All these states have open carry laws. Draw on any man who looks at you sideways. Get them out of your life. LEAVE THISE DAMNED CHURCHES.

The christofascists will either relent or one side will fall. There's more of us. Men will either get off the fence, understanding that this bullshit enslaves them too, or they'll get left at the cat adoption center with their loneliness.