It's very frustrating and there's a fenerational divide to this too. I believe it's one of the reasons therrs such a rise in misogyny. Dating app experiences are feeding it.

But you advise these you g men to get off the apps and meet us in real life, treating us well, and to a one, they're all responding "how? How do you meet women in real life?"

They sweae there's not place and no way to do that anymore..you give them a list and they blow it off.

Too much effort?

Seems like it. It's like they want love and relationships to drop from a vending machine. Or they want an Amazon girl, by which they mean they want to place an order and have her delivered. All because it's "not fair that women get to pick and choose and they have to work so hard".

Time and time again, that's what they're saying.