It's valid. More importantly, it's honest.

We can't help what we feel. Those sneaky little brainworms, right?

What's more important is how we handle those emotions and where we let them lead us.

Are you gonna sit and stew in resentment that women get something you want or that they don't value it the way you would (or think you would). You can let that resentment lead you to hate.

Or.

You can let that desire instruct you. Let it lead you to make changes in your life so you won't be hurting any more. You can let it push you toward thinking differently about why you chase after certain things and deny yourself others.

And for the record....this isnt just a problem amongst you guys. Women also too often expect men to fulfill certain roles they have no desire to or are incapable of. And then they sit in resentment.