It's one of those weird conumdrums created by the male mind and the striving to prove your manhood. It's part of what we women keep tryinf to tell you about patriarchy and the myths of manhood.

But instead of me laying it out, again, because the buzzwords seem to be snags for men, let me walk you through it with questions.

What does it mean to you to be a man and how do you define or prove your manhood? Start there and we'll take the next step.