It's not whataboutism, it's normalization.

Men, by and large, need to understand this and come to terms.

Because the victim narrative is for ending bashing men based on how it's affecting their mental health WITH NO commitment or self reflection to reciprocate.

Men want to keep dishing but be exempt from receiving.

Without self reflecting on how so many women aren't wrecks because we're inherently weak, but because this constant pecking we're forced to endure at the hands of men (and within all the marginalizations) affects our mental health and ability to thrive.

So before you throw out "whataboutism" let's see some broader accountability amongst men. Let's see a commitment to clean up your own side of the street before you demand we clear an easier path for you, at our expense. Again.