It's not the job of women to clean up the toxins of men.

And no. These people cannot be saved. They are not all men, some are women. They are authoritarians and will always hold authoritarian beliefs. They must be rejected and ostracized till they go hide back under the rocks they always crawl out of. You cannot provide cover or safe space for authoritarians or you will end up in some.kind of slavery. Every. Time.