It’s not that women are too dumb. But, it is a learned skill set and it’s not one you typically get in childhood. For most of us, our heads are filled with Disney princesses. Our moms and aunties don’t tell us the real score with men. We have to find out the hard way. And the men in our lives blame the mom’s for every bad feeling, like she’s the one with the problem because she won’t set aside her own feelings.
That’s the reality of how we grow up. Of course there are going to be some hard lessons learned.