It's not necessary.

You don't nees to learn how to be a good man any more than I need to learn how to be a good woman.

Both are straight jackets of someone else's definition of what a man and a woman should be.

Who are they to dictate how you express yourself? What is their supposed expertise on what will give you or me the best verions of ourselves for ourselves and for the society we inhabit, not to mention the families that deoend upon us? What on Earth would convince us to accept their wants over the wisdom of our own counsel?

No, my friend. Neither one of us need that. What we need, both of us...is to worry about and pursue being good human beings over being "good" men or "good" women. We need to elevate, to ascend our consciousness beyond the straightjackets of conformity. Isn't THAT what God wanted for us? For us to become a closer reflection by discovering the divinity within?