Its not as hard as people make it sound, is it?

Step, wait for match; step, wait for match; step, wait for match.

Hardly rocket science or brain surgery.

This is what's wrong with predatory language around dating like, "men pursue women" or "Ladies, let your man chase you, it's in his nature".

Not that there's anything weong with a fun game of chase once relatuons have been established, but you can be damn sure it won't be one sided! Where's the fun in that??? Run fast.