It's more reversed for women, I think. When you're young everyone goes out of their way to let you know how vulnerable and exposed you are.

You get around menopausal age and you've raised your kids, reached your shelf life (HA!), and are now considered more or less useless or a burden. If you're lucky, you're invisible. If you're unlucky, youve got that "I've been lied to" chip on your shoulder.

Now you're like, "What are you gonna do? Cut short my long life? Fuck off Asshole" And that's when you feel invincible. When you've reached that golden moment of Not Giving A Damn Anymore. Zero Fucks To Give.

I do want the Tshirt though. That's a must.