It's interesting that you say women have become masculine and lumped it in there with things like crass, loud, mean-spirited, attention hogging, and addicted.

You may be right. That may be the new standard of behavior as set by men, as you say. It's masculine.

Maybe if you can't take that kind of behavior, you should stop dishing it. Cultivate some manners of your own, as men, other than the toxic shit show women have had to put up with for quite a while now.