It would make sense to you if you understood the difference between standards, conditions, and boundaries.

Men should have boundaries. Everyone should. Boundaries protect you from being hurt by nefarious or damaged people.

What Hill did was not a boundary. It wasn't even a standard. It was a condition.

Notably, it was a condition set well after they had been together foea while and he knew she modeled and was a professional athlete. That means training with other athletes, who may sometimes be male.

It's not wrong that he had a hard time handling it. Sometimes certain things bother you more than you think they will. So you talk it out, try to compromise if you can, try to work through it if you can. If you can't, you part company respectfully, charitably, and with integrity.

What he said and did in those texts was manipulative and underhanded. There was no integrity, charity, or respect there. He really put her through an emotional wringer. Dude is shady as hell.

What she did, releasing those texts was spiteful and underhanded. There was no integrity, charity, or respect there. It was a vindictive cheap shot. Dudette is shady as hell.

One's wrong doesn't make the other right by the miracle of mental gymnastics.

They both did the other wrong.