It is an easy choice. You either have the chutzpah to gonafter what you want or you play it safe and grasp at what other people tell you to.

You either have the courage to take command of your own destiny or you passively follow along with the crowd over that cliff with the rest of the sheeple.

This is why it bugs me about the whole "men are aggressive and natural risk takers, women are passive and natural followers" narrative.

It's demonstrably not true. Men are proving, en masse that they are cowards and women are taking the risks to change the destiny tbat has been imposed upon them.