It is a deflection because, like rape culture apologists, you're putting the butt hurt feelings due to perception of wrongdoing over the actual people wronged by the bad behavior of some men.

Once again, you're putting perception over character and thus courting weakness of character and weakness in men.

I'm not particularly surprised, it seems to be a running theme with you. I'd suggest, once again, that you go read your Bible and ground yourself in some spiritual truth because you're off coarse. Again. But I won't waste my breath.

I do have a question for you though, about the complementarian doctrine you're so married to.

How do think complementarianism wirks out, long term, when the man in the equation cares more about perceptions of other people who are not a significant factor in his life, over the character he allowing to weaken and then falter in front of the woman of the equation?

Exactly how many years is she supposed to spend propping him up while he chases after the good opinion whims of the masses rather than hers? While she's the only one holding that relationship up? And she's alone in it? Because she's just "naturally skilled" at these things. And it's a compelent to him.

What a sweet deal. Lol.