It comes down to this. If the majority of the population has to pander to aggrieved little sock Muppets to prevent them from turning murderous, then the only way for the majority to feel safe against the homicidal impulse of the few to is to elimite them when it arises. Or thr majority will never be safe from them. Social bonds will break down.

The whole point of developing social Bo is within any species that has them is to protect against outside threats. The main threat to your existence CAN NOT BE from within the social group. Once it is, what's the point of maintaining social bonds?

The real choice here is not to suppress or oppress girls and women so men's egos can remain so overly inflated. It is whether or not you're going to check aberration violence in men or allow the male ego and subsequent violence to end hominids being a intersex social species.