Is it? Is it sad?

You do realize that most of your 'help' isn't really helpful a lot of the time, right?

Your comment reminds me of an exchange I had two days ago.

The chinese have or used to have an expression about swallowing bitterness and emotional pain.

The fact is, here in the west, women have been swallowing the unease generated by creepiness and awkward men. But PUA culture has necessitated a change there. We're drowning in weird interactions from men trying to hump our legs now.

So we're not swallowing it any more. If you're going to be hellbent on being weird and I capable of just saying hello like a normal person talking to a normal person, then you're going to get to share that awkwardness and unesse now.

I mean, since there's literally no escaping it since getting sex off us is a nunbers game and you've just got to shoot your shot with literally every attractive woman you happen to cross paths with.....seems fair to me.

Oh, and by the by...

If you want to say hello to your neighbor while she's out walking her dog, just wave and say Hey! There's no need to squeal.up behind her, speeding, across normal traffic flow, at 0430hrs and scream out your window, "I saw that! Mumble mumble"

And then have a damn fit because she asks what you saw (a coyote?, my ass?, littering? those homeless people? the dog sniffing around? the dog taking a shit?), harrumf like you're being unfairly out upon, and then gun it away in a snit.

She's going to think you're a bit of a creep. 😜