I'm with till that last statement. Asking men to not engage in criminal conduct -- and harassment is criminal conduct -- shouldn't be perceived as an impossible flex. It's bare minimum.

We don't ask me not to rob people. Or not to stab people. It's a given that the man is in the wrong when he does such things. Because it's CRIMINAL.

We don't fall all over ourselves making sure other criminals don't feel like they've been blamed. Or their feelings aren't hurt.