I'm saying they need to start making some different choices. It's up to them.

If they want to choose "barely contained raging beast monster" loke what Jordan Peterson says they should be, they need to buck up then and not fall apart over their loneliness.

They chose it. Monsters don't get a lot of compassion. They get a wide berth.

If they want to choose emotional literacy, then hiding behind "that's not how I was raised" osnt going to cut it either. Please ty of women who were raised to be doormats learn how to set and hold boundaries as adults. They can do that work too. Nothing is stopping them.

Compassion is also based on fair play or good faith. Airing out ones grievances in a way that blames an othered group and then demands compassion on those you have just demonized and/or villified is not good faith or fair play.

If you want.to give these guys compassion, waste your compassion innother words, go right ahead. You're an adult, responsible for your own standards and boundaries.

But the rest of us are going to focus on men who aren't flouncing around letting God and everyone know how much they hate and despise us. It's not like there's a shortage of decent men out there who would actually reciprocate what you invest in them.

But these entitled manbabies begging for a cookie all over the internet.....they're not it.