I'm not really up on "the future is female" as it's not a feminine list argument and I generally avoid as much woo woo gender essentialism like resting g in your femininity" as it makes me want to hurl...so I can't say.

As for by whom and where the arguments are made, I'm not seeing g the revelance you are. Seems a little elitist to me. All ideas spend time in various sandboxes as they're being developed or hashed out. Medium is such a sandbox. So what's the problem?