I'm not bothered. Not sure how you got there.

That's just my opinion of how it will likely fall out for her based on what I've seen.

Actually, I'm generally against marriage and see it mostly as a scam. So we actually agree on that.

I just think it's funny how so many of you men think that not getting married will magically protect you. It won't.

Likewise, I think it's funny how so many women who think the same way, meaning always looking to advantage themselves, seem to think that marriage will magically protect them. It won't.

To "I do" or not "I do" is not the problem. A lack of integrity is.

Sure, maybe it's all fun and games now. But once children come along and there's someone else to consider, that changes things because it has to.

Sorry to burst your bubble, but that's life. It won't be fun and games then.

Eventually, she will regret choosing you, and not because you did or didn't get married. But because, at least in comments, you consistently prioritize yourself and you're distrustful and you don't like women. You consistently demonstrate the attitude of one who enters relationships to get served but never be of service.

She may not see that now, maybe she even agrees with it because that's what y'all's culture has taught you. But once that starts negatively impacting her child(ren) and her own relationship with them, you're not gonna look so good.

Maybe you're just fronting on the internet. I can't know, I don't know you. I'm just taking things you have said at face value (and only that information) and drawn logical conclusions. You're a risky mate to have children with.

But I admit, there's no way I can have a full picture of the whole landscape.

As far as swelling the ranks of feminism. Maybe. Maybe not. This may surprise you, but so many traumatized and abused women that haven't unpacked their trauma or want to do so publicly while going through it "to be seen", rather than reflectively, swelling the ranks isn't necessarily a good thing for feminism.

Also, women aren't angels by virtue of being a woman. There's more than enough women also riding the coattails of feminism just to seek advantage for thrmselves without ever having to do the work of change themselves.