I'm kinda with Julia on this one. I liked your article, btw. Totally get it. But....the wording in that one thing sort of threw things off kilter for two reasons. One, what Julia said, it is a sweeping generalization that is no where near true. Two, she already said she wanted a small wedding. Then you're telling her what she's dreamed of and you're going to give it to her. That's troublesome. Given the tenor of the thing as a whole, I'm pretty sure that's not what you intended, but that *is* how it lands. I can tell you from my own experience growing up as a girl maybe 1/4 girls in my periphery dreamed of a fancy schmancy wedding, maybe 1/4 didn't think of it at all, leaving roughly 1/2 wanting and thinking about smaller, more intimate affairs. The pressure for weddings comes from trying to accommodate families and a created industry. Few women actually get the wedding of their dreams. The get the wedding of everyone else's dreams and then get maligned as a bridezilla. I do find that most young women fantasize or dream about the dress more than anything.