I'm guessing this was heavily influenced/assisted by AI.
You've got a problem.
If men are going to abdicate responsibility for their reproducrive potential, then they give up having a say on when and if they become fathers. Or what that's going to look like.
Women should be responsible for their reproductive potential and men should be responsible for theirs.
If you give someone else the duty you should keep to yourself, it's inevitable that somewhere along the lines a decision you didn't want will be made on your behalf. There won't be any do overs and you'll be the one living with the consequences.
Your presumption is flawed thinking devoid of big picture critical thinking.