If you're a teenager, you're just figuring out who you are. You're too young to have acquires enough adult dating g or relationship experience to be making the claims and assessments you're making.

It's highly unlikely that you have even achieved a measure of self reliance yet. You're not fully "adulting". You're still reliant on someone(s) else to take care od you and support you.

No shame and there's nothing wrong with that. You are where you are in life because life is complicated and if being self reliant early on was a the way it should be for humans, we'd hatch out of eggs instead of having long gestational, infancy, and development times into adulthood.

Just realize that at this stage in your life, your perspective is highly limited, you're more prone to propaganda influence, and you lack experience to think that your opinions are centered in wisdom. You haven't actually had to live with the consequences and fallout of your beliefs yet, without someone (generally, your mom) providing you a soft place to land.

Your mom is a woman, BTW. So are your sisters.

Might want to keep that in mind.