If my opinion, backed up by both research and life experience, makes you feel bad about yourself or feel shame because you're a man....that's a you problem dude. That's not bashing men, any more than pointing out that you could die in a car accident if you drive recklessly is bashing cars.

Operate your masculinity like a good and respectful of others driver rather than an entitled drunken lout who thinks it's fun to drag race down the freeway the wrong way in the middle of the night.

See the distinction? This is not hard.