I would lke to interject again that in the past most men did think of other people's needs. They spent a lot of time doing it. After all, you cannot provide for someone without first knowing what they need and you cannot protect someone if you don't know what they need to be protected from and you're too much of a sloth to get yourself ready to address that issue properly oi and when the need arises.
You can't just talk the talk and expect to get a cookie based on historical romanticizations.
You've got to walk the walk and earn the respect the right way. No shortcuts.
Prancing around like a peacock is NOT the same thing.