I was referring to that broad statement about love requiring trust and vulnerability.

It may be somewhat true, but those things take time and investment to be real rather than performative.

So it's a reductive thing to say.

Further, dating apps make it impossible, yet men continue to invest their dating time into them and blame women for their frustrations. They were built to make money, not to make you successful in finding a mate. Just saying.

Then you said, basically, that one just had to suck it up and put their neck out. This is self absorbed. Women aren't killing men. You might have a bad date, get some crazies, or be out some money. But the potential negative outcomes for women are much higher to be so flippant and dismissive of them.

I'd suggest you get off dating apps, but I suspect that would fall on deaf ears.