I was just responding to another post about the same thing, and I'll repeat it here. I get the desire to unite. All things being equal, it's always the way to go. Things aren't equal because there's a mix of bias to contend with. So, what is gained from reaching out to such women may not be worth what you/we put into it.

Perhaps it's better and more expedient to find ways around them and then allow them to catch up when they realize they're being left behind.

Not attack them. But, if they are okay with women being less, then give them what they want, irrelevance. If they want to be gatekeepers, remove the fence, even if you have to torch it.

Maybe the Lillith and Eve analogy is apt, even today. Eve doesn't get to choose for Lillith whether or not she wants to live under Adam's boot (or lie beneath him) and Lillith doesn't get to choose for Eve. The truly glorious thing there is, there are a whole lot of men out there, not named Adam, happy to lie beside and keep their boots in the mud room where they belong.