I was going comment on that too, but you said it extremely well. I don't know of many women who complain they can't get a date either. We step outside our doors and we trip over men who are queued up to take their shot. Our problems that are complained about are more that we can't get them to leave us alone, problematic and gross behavior, and poor quality dates after the fact.

So, it's not that they didn't give the guy a chance or whatever, it's that he blew it.