I understand the awkwardness too. That's why you practice. It's a skill like anything else.

I'm confusedbbynoart of your comment. You said "they wouldn't" to a highlighted part about women picking up on being interchangeable to the man hitting on them.

Are you saying you go around hitting on women just to get sex without regard to their personhood...

Or are you saying you don't think women are incapable of discerning such things based on your observation?